
"Coaching involves meetings/interaction. Someone helps someone else to learn something new".
At work this may involve
Words like "coach" or "mentor" is fine for the one doing the coaching - but the officialesse of such terms grates on the nerves. The same is true is for the "client" - the one being supported. Nonetheless this is a helper-client relationship which involves support, peer review and discussion - a conversation oriented towards learning. The form of help varies but one facet of it is that the coach avoids actually perform the task for the client. An unhealthy dependency relationship is easily created. More likely the "help" should enable the client to become independent and "take ownership" of the situation, the task and associated learning.
Coaching or mentoring may also be linked to
All these are linked to coaching - even as preparation. However purposeful "coaching" activity is likely to involve more direct and organised interaction (working together and a structured, controlled dialogue) between coach and client.
Here "coaching" as a process becomes a managerial tool rather than something useful in itself for the client in his/her own right (a somewhat cynical view).
It requires thought, proper shaping (targeting) and ability to follow-through. The coach and client need to understand the process and be skilful. Competence is needed. Participants ideally need to be able to review their own processes of interaction and learning.
Lets be clear - coaching activities can be based on an appointment, a scheduled activity but the activity can also be opportunistic - seizing on an opening to stimulate learning (as long as this itself is not an imposition).
Be aware that - too frequent efforts to push people into "coaching mode" will discredit the process.
Many processes are involved in learning - coaching is one activity.
However the ideal interpersonal conditions for a sound coaching relationship
may be jeopardised where appraisal decisions are also on the table and job
rewards are dependent on the outcomes of such evaluation.
Clearly physical factors affect learning. It may be difficult to do coaching in a noisy, busy office with constant interruptions or in a smoky pub or workshop filled with risks that require constant attention.
Beyond this, social and psychological factors influence learning greatly.
Would you really want spend hours coaching someone who you feel is a
waste of of your energy?
The needs, perceptions and motivations of the coach are a key ingredient.
Of course, co-working/collaboration is more important rather than person-to-person
rivalry yet rivalry is a natural human response and we would be naive to
suggest otherwise. So little of the human relations management literature
deals with the fact that there are some people we just do not want to be
with or give anything to because we plainly do not like them.
Coaching is wasted without learning transfer - moving from the job role into "a conscious learning activity" and then moving back to the job role. These can be difficult transfers. Adjustment is needed. Forms of "debriefing" with the boss can assist greatly with absorption back into the job role. Yet the naivity of this suggestion needs more evaluation? What other "adjustment" processes may be evident?
What is the contribution of coaching as a prior, concurrent or post-event process in each of the following?
Efforts can be driven by the coach or the learner or both. Various strategies become apparent and we can characterise these by using a typology or supposed continuum - such as the Tannenbaum-Schmidt Leadership Continuum.
The manager is in effect "initiating to empower" to "keep the ball in the others court". Problem parameters may need to be defined/clarified - but in effect the initiator does not have a strong need directly control and determine the actual outcome. There is still a need for feedback on progress.
Supervisory control is minimal. The manager may offer information and alternative perspectives - without pressing them. If the matter calls for standards to be set and a wider, say policy perspective to be applied then the manager/coach will still need to keep in touch with what is taking place and its outcomes.
Choice of behaviour (if this is conscious and controlled) of course will all depend on.... (the contingency management line, the law of the situation).
The situation view says "weigh up the situation, choose mode of response (collection of behaviours), monitor/reflect on what you do and how well it works. Isn't this a wonderful and slick slogan!
So the "flexible coach" proposition is that a coach may sometimes be directive and effective in the way they help, sometimes non-directive. In "tough-minded management" circles the inclination may be more directive yet educationalists would argue that non-directive methods are preferable and secure better outcomes for the learner.
Many managers face a duality problem in coaching which runs counter to development aspirations. Coaches can wear two possibly incompatible hats.
I want to help but I am accountable for his/her work. I have to maintain standards and get tasks done - within a policy remit. Deadlines have to be met.
To avoid the duality and to secure more client-centred outcomes, try to develop a more non-directive style. There are no clear sequences when it comes to actually "coaching". But we can generalise about some Coaching injunctions
Evaluate your personal coaching style?
- Which style do you adopt most often - if any at all?
- Does it work, help? Why? If not, why not?
- Are you constrained in using an alternative approach? Which and why?
- Does a skill deficiency or deficiency of orientation on your part or on your client's part (e.g. a learning blockage) undermine opportunities for coaching and learning?
- How can you improve - be better?
- Should you back-off for a whole host of reasons?
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